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voted the best wedding planner book

wedding planner book – little white book

our wedding planner uses inclusive, gender-neutral language


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“Undoubtedly the best wedding planner book!”

We are proud to be frequently voted the best wedding planner book and since its launch in 2016, consistently featured in international magazines and publications (Cosmopolitan, Glamour UK & CNN to name a few), the little white book is a step by step gender neutral wedding planning guide, 12 month journal, diary and keepsake. An ideal engagement gift and essential planning tool, the little white book wedding planner comprises:

  • wedding planning tools (e.g. guest list, wedding budget, venue and vendor appointments and contact, honeymoon planning and separate budget)
  • wedding checklists integrated throughout the diary.
  • a complete 12 month diary (undated, one page double-spread)
  • journal prompts to encourage recording this special time (see benefits of keeping a wedding diary in ‘description’
  • room for your thoughts, notes, sketches, photos and memories.

Every product we create is designed with the LGBTQIA+ community in mind. All of our books and journals use gender neutral, inclusive language – it is important that all couples and families have the perfect wedding planners, baby books and more. 

For a limited time, we have just made the little white book, planning pack and our couple’s journal available with a highly reduced price (30% off) in the Ultimate Planning Pack. If you prefer ink over ballpoint, use our Artline pens – instant drying and guaranteed not to bleed through pages.

Ships daily from Melbourne (Australia and international orders) and Auckland (NZ orders). 

If you’re a modern, multi-tasking organised and super-chic couple who wants to enjoy planning their Big Day, this is the wedding planner for you! Voted the Best Wedding Planner Book in Australia by numerous international publications (see below for details) the little white book is “Undoubtedly the best wedding planner book”, and simply the only one you need.

As Voted Best Wedding Planner Book!

If you’re in Australia or New Zealand and have looked for wedding planning or budgeting help online, you’ve probably come across our extensive wedding planning guides. Cited by national newspapers as an authority on wedding planning, the blog has helped over a million couples on their wedding planning journey. In 2016 (then called She Said Yes) we created the perfect wedding planning book for any journal lover, note taker and checklist-devotee to get a kick-start with wedding planning – the only wedding planner with a 12 month diary, and integrated checklists throughout. The little white book is a wedding planning tool and an organiser diary all-in-one. Therefore, you will take it everywhere, actually use it, and keep it forever after your wedding too. In 2021 we republished the book in a gender-neutral edition to be LGBTQ+ inclusive, so it’s now perfect for all same-sex and non binary couples. We also made a few little improvements, such as including introductory pages ‘our love story’ to help with vow writing, and the final few pages ‘the adventure continues’ to encourage couples to look forward to the future. Best of all, by using the little white book, couples stay on-track and organised, while creating a keepsake of memories and ticking off essential wedding planning checklists all the way along.

What makes our wedding planner unique?

It’s the modern, multi-tasking wedding planner’s daily diary and organiser, compiled into one stylish, smart and easy-to-carry book. It’s the only wedding planner with a 12 month diary, with checklists integrated throughout – making it both an essential wedding planning tool, and your daily diary and planner:

– ultimate wedding planner book

– full of essential planning tools e.g. guest lists, budget, venue appointments and contact, other vendor meetings, honeymoon planning. You won’t have a chance to forget anything.

– detailed wedding checklists are integrated within the 12 month countdown timeline, keeping you organised to create the wedding of your dreams,

– a 12 month diary 1 week per double-page spread, then 1 page per day in the final week to your Big Day. Undated – you insert applicable month/year, start anytime. Rather than tucking this book in a drawer to be forgotten, you can use it every single day.

– wedding journal prompts to encourage you to record all your own thoughts, experiences and memories to work on your vows. Allocated space every week for goals and tasks will also keep you on track.

– plenty of note and blank pages make this perfect to plan a wedding day with the bullet journalling method

– made to the highest quality, it’s worthy of its keepsake status

– republished for same-sex couples in 2021, suitable for all same-sex or non binary couples.

Also available as a bundle with the wedding planning packWe ship the little white wedding planner book Australia-wide daily from Melbourne & worldwide from Auckland New Zealand.

Benefits of keeping a wedding diary:

As well as keeping all your to-do’s, your vendor contacts, budget, guest list (and more and more), it is also incredibly therapeutic and incredible for stress and anxiety to gather your thoughts, vent your frustrations, and keep a diary of this very special time. Not only will this help you along the way with reflection and mindfulness (sometimes wedding planning can be stressful) but your writings will be incredibly useful later. A collection of musings on your lives together, what is important to you, how excited you are to celebrate with friends from near and far, and how much you’re looking forward to marrying (!!) your love. My wedding diary helped me to write my vows and my wedding speech, and is now such a beautiful keepsake of the time.

To incorporate these ideas into a wedding planner book, the little white book begins with a few pages on the proposal, and your love story – what brought you together, what made you forever, and what you want from a life spent with one another in future. Beyond all the traditional planning tools, it’s also (and 6 years on, I believe it’s the only wedding planner which is also a 12 month diary – undated weekly spreads for recording each day’s plans, events and reflections.

The little white book is so much more than a wedding planner, and will become a much loved companion on the your wedding planning journey. Named the best wedding planner book in Australia by Bridal Musings and Modern Wedding Magazine, it’s what couples not only want, but actually need to plan a wedding – the perfect engagement gift for a busy engaged couple.

Using the little white book will help with mindfulness, reflection, and your very important vow-writing, it’s just so much more than a wedding planner.

As recommended by:

Featured on CNN, NZ & Lace, Modern Wedding Australia Magazine, Glamour UK Magazine, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Etsy (Etsy’s Pick 2022, Best Planner 2021, Top 10 in 2020), Wedding Forward, Karen Willis Holmes, Bridal Musings (“best wedding planner book”), VIVA magazine (“perfect wedding planner”), Canvas Magazine (“a very practical wedding planner”), Miss Fashion Quarterly, Unbridely, Polka Dot Bride, Remix Magazine, Elle Cherie, Emma’s Wedding Advice, Mindy Weiss, The White Files,, Heartbeat Bridal, Southern Bride, Irish Wedding Blog, Vanolia, Love Photography, Rime Arodaky, NZ Real Health & more, plus read our customer reviews!!

All New Zealand orders are shipped every business day out of Auckland, and delivery is expected overnight or within 1-2 business days (subject to any Courier Post delays). 

International shipping times vary, but if your order is time-sensitive, we recommend shipping with our DHL option which is 3-5 working days.

Returns are accepted if notified within 7 days of receipt, in accordance with our T&C

All Australian and International orders are shipped every business day out of Melbourne. Delivery within Australia is expected 1-3 business days (Express) and 3-6 business days (Standard) (subject to any Aus Post delays). 

International shipping times vary, but if your order is time-sensitive, we recommend shipping with our DHL option which is 3-5 working days.

Returns are accepted if notified within 7 days of receipt, in accordance with our T&C.

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