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How to write a wedding speech to your Wife

How to Write a Wedding Speech to Your Wife

Writing a wedding speech can be a nerve-wracking task, especially when it comes to expressing your love and appreciation for your new Wife on one of the most important days of your life. Your speech is an opportunity to celebrate your relationship and showcase the love, joy, and gratitude you feel on this special day.

If you’re using our wedding planner book, or couples journal, refer back through some of the notes you’ve made too.

To help you craft a heartfelt and meaningful wedding speech to your wife, here are some tips and advice to keep in mind:

1. Start with a Heartfelt Introduction

Begin your speech with a captivating introduction that sets the tone for the rest of your speech. Thank your guests for being part of this momentous occasion, and express your excitement and happiness at marrying your wife. Consider starting with a quote or anecdote that highlights your deep love and admiration for her.

2. Share personal stories and cherished memories

The best wedding speeches are personal and heartfelt. Share specific stories and cherished memories that illuminate your love for your wife. Recall the moment you knew she was the one, the first time you met her, or a special experience that brought you closer together. Highlight the qualities and characteristics you adore about her, such as her kindness, intelligence, or sense of humor.

3. Express Gratitude

Express your gratitude to your wife for everything she has brought into your life and for being the incredible person she is. Acknowledge her unwavering support, the laughter she has brought into your days, and how she has helped you overcome challenges. Don’t shy away from showing your emotions—this is a unique moment to express your deepest feelings.

4. Offer words of encouragement and unwavering support

Your speech should celebrate the love and commitment you share as a couple. Offer heartfelt words of encouragement and support for the future. Discuss the adventures and dreams you both hope to pursue together. Reflect on the challenges you have conquered as a team, and emphasize your unwavering dedication to facing any future obstacles side by side.

5. End with a toast

Conclude your speech with a memorable toast to your wife, your families, and your shared future. Raise your glass and express your boundless love and excitement for the incredible journey that lies ahead.

In addition to these general tips, here are some specific considerations when writing your speech:

  • Keep it concise. Limit your speech to a maximum of five minutes to maintain engagement and impact.
  • Practice, practice, practice. Rehearse your speech several times before the wedding day to build confidence and ensure a smooth delivery.
  • Consider your audience. Craft a speech that resonates with guests of all ages and backgrounds, avoiding inside jokes or overly personal anecdotes.
  • Inject humor when appropriate. Incorporate tasteful humor to add levity and captivate your audience, but never at the expense of anyone.
  • Use props or visual aids if appropriate. Consider incorporating meaningful photos or symbolic items that enhance the personalization of your speech.
  • Speak from the heart. Let your speech be a sincere reflection of your love, appreciation, and commitment to your wife.

Wedding Speech Example [To My Wife]

Dearest Wife – a title I will cherish and use abundantly in the weeks to come, I have been waiting to use it a long time,

As your partner, your confidant, and your best friend, I stand before you today to express my deepest love and gratitude. Surrounded by our loved ones, I want to take this opportunity to thank you for being the most incredible person in my life. I cannot imagine a world without your presence, and I’m so glad you agreed to be my wife [if possible, use a funny anecdote, e.g. despite my …]

When I reflect on what I cherish most about you, it’s your gentle heart, your unwavering support, and your infectious laughter that brightens my days… [Provide specific examples].

As we embark on this journey together, I am filled with joy and gratitude that out of the billions of people in the world, we found each other. You are undeniably my soulmate. You have been my rock through every high and low, and with you by my side, I believe we can conquer any challenge that comes our way… [Elaborate on specific examples].

As we eagerly anticipate our shared future, I am excited about the adventures we will embark on together. I know that our lives will be filled with boundless love, ceaseless laughter, and countless possibilities. Let us [Provide specific example].

My beloved wife, I want to thank you for being my partner, my soulmate, and my best friend. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you wholeheartedly, and to treasure every moment we share together.

Here’s to us, my love, and to a lifetime of everlasting happiness and love. To our forever.


Remember, make your speech personal and genuine, capturing the unique essence of your relationship. On this remarkable day, as you write your wedding speech, always remember the importance of nurturing and prioritizing your marriage. Cherish each other, grow together, communicate openly, and embrace the journey ahead. Discover our couple’s journals, such as the ‘I Still Do‘ wedding anniversary journal, to help you continue building a strong and loving marriage.”

Feel free to personalize the example speech further, and ensure it reflects the unique dynamics and experiences of your relationship.

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